We all have an inner critic—a voice within that evaluates, judges, and often berates us. While it may vary in tone and intensity from person to person, the inner critic is a near-universal experience. It frequently manifests as self-doubt, harsh judgment, or relentless perfectionism, shaping how we view ourselves and
Childhood Trauma and the Shame Men Carry
Childhood trauma leaves lasting imprints on one’s psyche, shaping how individuals perceive themselves and relate to others. For men, societal expectations and norms about strength and emotional restraint can exacerbate these scars, with shame often playing a central, unacknowledged role. One of the most insidious aspects of shame, especially toxic
The Role of Childhood Trauma in Infidelity
This article is part of a series exploring how unresolved childhood abuse can shape adult behaviors, making survivors vulnerable to leading secretive lives and engaging in infidelity. When early trauma goes unaddressed, the coping mechanisms developed in response to abuse often carry over into adulthood, influencing emotional intimacy, trust, and
Why Men Remain Silent About Childhood Abuse
Childhood abuse is a profound trauma that can have lasting effects on an individual’s psychological, emotional, and physical well-being. For men, the experience of abuse is often compounded by societal expectations around masculinity, making it particularly difficult to speak out or seek help. The silence surrounding male childhood abuse is
The Role of Sexualization in Masking Pain
Emotional pain is an inevitable aspect of the human experience, something we all encounter at some point in our lives. As we navigate this pain, we develop coping mechanisms to help us manage and alleviate our suffering. Some of these coping strategies are conscious and intentional, such as reaching out