The following is the second post in a series on pathological lying. In the first post, Notes from a Pathological Liar, we heard from Jay, a man in his forties who created a web of lies that ended up devastating his fiancee and their relationship. In this post, we’ll look
Notes from a Pathological Liar
According to Webster’s Dictionary, a lie is “an untrue statement with intent to deceive.” Obviously we all can relate to telling a lie. Whether it’s to make ourselves look better or cover up an embarrassing fact (or even to avoid hurting someone else’s feelings), I’d say with a high degree
Understanding Destructive Compartmentalization
While in queue to order coffee one day not too long ago, I couldn’t help but hear the woman ahead of me in line speaking into her phone. “What I’m saying is that you don’t have to think about it at all,” she said. That was followed by a long
Men Who Chase Shadows: Secrets, Lies & Acting Out
“Why did I do it? I love my wife, I have so much to lose, why?!” Many of the men I work with are seeking answers to questions like the one above. They’ve acted in ways they later regret and, at some point, they had to face the painful fallout
The Dark Side of Mental Compartmentalization
“I’ve always been able to compartmentalize. It’s like putting things into boxes so I don’t have to think about them.” ~Daniel, 47 We all have the ability to block certain experiences from awareness. And that’s not always a bad thing. The ability to focus and get through a work