Trust isn’t merely an isolated component of a relationship; it’s the bedrock upon which the entire relationship is built. Without trust, a relationship is compromised and cannot offer a couple the conditions necessary for emotional safety and connection. One of the most devastating consequences of betrayal trauma is the shattering
Living Through Betrayal: A Spouse’s Story
As a psychologist, I’ve worked with a great number of individuals and couples healing from the trauma of infidelity. Many have reported the importance of connecting with others who have endured this particular pain. Some have found that connection in online forums, support groups, or with someone they personally know
Understanding Post-Affair Anxiety
Being the victim of an affair is like having the ground beneath you give way without warning. The emotional foundation you relied on crumbles, leaving you in a free-fall of confusion and pain. It’s not just the act of betrayal that cuts deep, but the profound loss of trust and
The Role of Sexualization in Masking Pain
Emotional pain is an inevitable aspect of the human experience, something we all encounter at some point in our lives. As we navigate this pain, we develop coping mechanisms to help us manage and alleviate our suffering. Some of these coping strategies are conscious and intentional, such as reaching out
When the Betrayed Obsesses Over the Affair Partner
“I never imagined I’d end up betrayed by my partner,” said Tanya, age 44. “In my mind, infidelity was something that happened to other couples. Ones who didn’t communicate, or those who didn’t have anything in common. I was so wrong.” Tanya and Marcus had been married for sixteen years