This article is part of a series exploring how unresolved childhood abuse can shape adult behaviors, making survivors vulnerable to leading secretive lives and engaging in infidelity. When early trauma goes unaddressed, the coping mechanisms developed in response to abuse often carry over into adulthood, influencing emotional intimacy, trust, and
From Grief to Healing After Infidelity
Infidelity strikes at the core of trust, unraveling the fabric of a relationship and leaving behind a swath of deep pain, confusion, and upheaval. For the betrayed partner, the experience can feel like an overwhelming series of losses—not only the trust that was once shared but the relationship, the person,
Why Men Remain Silent About Childhood Abuse
Childhood abuse is a profound trauma that can have lasting effects on an individual’s psychological, emotional, and physical well-being. For men, the experience of abuse is often compounded by societal expectations around masculinity, making it particularly difficult to speak out or seek help. The silence surrounding male childhood abuse is
Rebuilding Trust After An Affair
Trust isn’t merely an isolated component of a relationship; it’s the bedrock upon which the entire relationship is built. Without trust, a relationship is compromised and cannot offer a couple the conditions necessary for emotional safety and connection. One of the most devastating consequences of betrayal trauma is the shattering
Living Through Betrayal: A Spouse’s Story
As a psychologist, I’ve worked with a great number of individuals and couples healing from the trauma of infidelity. Many have reported the importance of connecting with others who have endured this particular pain. Some have found that connection in online forums, support groups, or with someone they personally know