Distressed couples are couples that, in some way, have fallen away from each other. The emotional connection that infused life and vitality into their relationship has weakened and in some cases, severed completely. Attachment theory/research shows that emotional connection — that subjective sense that our spouse/partner is emotionally “there” for
3 Reasons Men Struggle with Emotional Intimacy
The face of marriage (and intimate relationships) has changed over the years and some men are playing catch-up in order to adjust to these changes. The dynamics created by patriarchal arrangements have given way to greater equality and the blurring of traditional marital roles. The expectations of what it means
Dating After Divorce: Am I Really Ready?
Dating after divorce can feel daunting. The pain and heartbreak of a marriage ending can make us leery — as a result, we may move into protective mode, avoiding the emotional vulnerability that is part of intimate relationships. When we’re hurt, confused and disoriented, emotional retreat can feel like the
Can Retirement Hurt Your Marriage?
Retirement…the word itself is likely to make you smile. After all, it represents a time in your life when you can finally prioritize things according to your wishes, rather than squeeze what’s important to you around the edges of a demanding work schedule. The retired life calls to mind peace
Want a Better Marriage? Start Working on Yourself
A great deal has been written about what goes into making a healthy marriage. This is a topic that most of us have opinions about, opinions based on our own marital experiences as well as the values and biases we hold about relationships. A significant portion of relationship advice literature